R. Kelly is blaming Ryan Gosling for ruining his marriage … sorta … and it’s all because of R.G.’s performance in “The Notebook.”

Kelly just revealed some incredibly personal secrets in his new memoir, “Soulacoaster” … including an explanation about why he decided to divorce his former back up dancer Andrea Kelly back in 2009.

Long story short … Kelly claims after watching the movie, he realized his own 12-year marriage couldn’t stand up to the romance featured in the flick.

Here’s the explanation in Kelly’s own words:

“As the film credits started to roll, I couldn’t move. I burst into tears. People walking past me patted me on the back, trying to console me. ‘The Notebook’ was beautiful, and I was crying because its hero and heroine had died together.

But I was also crying because I remembered a Valentine’s Day — when a helicopter dropped a rainfall of roses — that had come and gone … My marriage had died. And there was nothing I could do to bring it back.”

Damn you, Gosling.

 

via: tmz